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Leaning Into Your Manifestations
Manifesting what you want has a few elements to it. Firstly, you need to know what you really want. Then from the tips of your fingers to the tips of your toes, you need to really desire it. You need a plan and to take action (what is my goal, and what is my first step?). You need the use of your imagination and feelings of gratitude (to visualise your goal, and yourself in it). You need to have patience and persistence, so that if your goal doesn’t manifest exactly when you want it to, you will have the perseverance to keep working at, and the patience and deep sense of knowing that it will happen at an appointed time. And lastly, you need to trust that it will happen–I like to think of this as nothing short of blind faith.
And that’s the crux of learning to lean into your manifestations–it’s the ability to trust with all your being, that you WILL achieve your goal, even if*sigh*the Universe’s timeline is a little different to yours. Trust that it is on its way to you already–the Universe has heard your goal, heard your desire. And trust that the Universe is on your side and wants to give you what you desire, because whatever you desire, desires you! Your desire knows that you will make positive change in the world once you receive it.
Trusting is a learned skill, and something you must prime your mind for. The best way to keep the trust going, is to wake up and doing your daily manifesting rituals (go to the Resources page for the free Radical Transformation Manifesting Formula to get you started).As you are doing your visualisations or affirmations, if those pesky thoughts start entering your mind “This stuff doesn’t work” “It’s all a load of…” “This is just a silly fantasy” stop them by replacing them with thoughts that align with your goal.
It might go something like this: You “I can’t wait to buy my beautiful, new home!” Pesky thought: “You’re dreami..” Trust reflex: “I won’t engage. I have a plan, I’m taking the steps, and I know that the Universe is on my side”. Pesky thought: “Okay, you’re actually delusio…”Trust reflex: “I won’t engage. The idea of my goal was placed in my mind for a reason. I am in control of my thoughts. I trust myself, and I trust the Universe completely. ”Pesky thought: “Okay but” Trust reflex: “I won’t engage. This is what I really want, and I’m so grateful that my house is on its way to me, thank you! ”Eventually you should feel a sense of calm and confidence wash over you, as you drown out the pesky thoughts, by saturating your mind with real thoughts of wealth & abundance.
Now this conversation with your pesky thoughts might happen quite often in the beginning, but you will eventually get to a point where your trust and belief in yourself, and your goal, have become so strong and so vivid in your mind, that the pesky thoughts will decrease with time, and lessen in intensity. And just remember, you can achieve anything you truly believe in. So, when thoughts enter your mind, and tell you that you can’t, or shouldn’t pursue your goal, is just old conditioning trying to keep you safe and contained within what it knows. The negative thoughts aren’t “reason”, they’re just self-limiting beliefs and old thought patterns potentially passed down for generations. This is really important to understand, if you’re going to start practising manifesting.
Another important thing to understand is, manifesting becomes hard if instead of “pesky thoughts”, there are actually full-blown wealth & success blocks which are holding you back: “You’re being greedy”, “You don’t deserve a nice house”, “You’ll have to work yourself to death to buy one”, “You’re hopeless, you’ll never get it together”, “Who would ever want to use your services?”, “You’re a bad person for wanting nice things”. These are deeper beliefs which can be cleared over time through affirmations, but they are cleared far more quickly and effectively with a professional coach. If you think you have wealth & success blocks which are holding you back, and stopping you from leaning into your manifestations, try heading to my Programs page to see how it all works, and if working with a coach is for you.
Your idea to start a business, or your grand goal or dream you have for your career, has been put in your imagination for a reason. Trust yourself, and the source who put it there. There are great plans for you which await, but only you can embrace them.
It’s time to start leaning into your manifestations.